Over the time and talking from experience, ;) I have come to realise that many women and men stay in relationships even though they know they're undervaluing themselves by being there. Sometimes they’re undervaluing themselves because the other person isn't good enough or the other person genuinely can’t handle the rights and responsibilities that come with a relationship. One of the most popular phrases that people use to conclude their relationship post mortem is…..
"The signs were there early on but I ignored them" or "looking back I wish i had listened to so so person (e.g your then selfish friend)
Signs you need to leave a relationship.....unless you want it to end disastrously....!
1) They tell you they don't want to commit: " We can't take this further because I'm not ready for what you really want" so you can be in the relationship but no commitment!
2) They tell you they don't want a relationship: so why are you there?
3) All your closest friends and family have concluded they're the anti-christ.
4) You're tired of trying to change them: you can't change a person, only God can.
5) You're trying to change them: don't even try it because it won't work.
6) They told you they're not ready even at the settling down age.
7) You have massive doubts that you channel by biting your nails and screaming at the homeless.
8) Women:- They make you cry (weekly)
Men: - They cause you utter the words "I hate me" (daily)
9) You've split up and made up so many times that everybody including you is confused with your relationship status.
10) You know it’s going nowhere and definitely going no where.
My dear RUN!
Love Life
Olori Amope xx
